Transitioning MtF girl who is just getting along in life. About 2 years on hormone therapy. Like me, love me, hate me, despise me, whatever. I've ceased to care. I've had some of the best haters in the world hate and accuse me of all kinds of things, I doubt you will do anything new or exciting. This is a place for me to bitch and whine.
What do I post? Anime (not hentai), mermaids, cute girls, cute clothes, shoes. I do memes, I repost silly pics and demotivational posters. I occasionally post pics of me, but that's few and far between. I post about trans issues, hate, getting past hating and social issues. I post girls in bondage (wishing it were me), and I post restraints (the things that tie the girls up with). I post corsets and dresses, and corset dresses and dresses than need corsets. I post beautiful women in real situations, not runway models who look like strung out boys with strange clothing on. I post jokes and puns. I'll post Doctor Who, Firefly, Disney, Star Wars, Star Trek, quotes, NCIS, NCIS: LA, West Wing, Criminal Minds. I post some awareness stuff and some political stuff, especially where it connects to Trans* issues. I post cheerleaders and their uniforms (I have a lot of respect for the sport of cheerleading and stunting, and if you think it's just a bunch of cute bitches yelling chants, GTFO now). I love Playboy Bunnies (the coctail waitresses, not the centerfolds). I enjoy and want many of the women's national costumes (Cheongsam, Hijab and chador, kimono, drindl and many others).
I post self hate, self loathing, depressive items, things where I wonder who could ever love me. I don't do Ana or Thinspiration, I sometimes do suicide posts. I try not to do them often since I know they trigger people.
The clothes that are up I think are cute/cool/nice/beautiful and ususally they are items I want to have on me. Same for the shoes. Same for the jewelry. Same for the girls (as in I want to be them or have their body as mine, not that I want to have sex with them).
I'm a lesbian. I can appreceiate the astetics of a male body, but I'm not sexually attracted to men. I am attracted to women and cute girls (and I consider a girl to be 13 to 18 and a woman to be anything above 18). If I tell you that you are beautiful or cute or pretty or anything else, you can believe me, I don't do social lies.
I don't do hate. I don't do bullying. I will keep secrets. I will do what I can for you to give you a safe space to let it out without judgment. I will ALWAYS be there for you.
That's my blog.
Rate/Follow/Promo/Vote/Reblog me?
Okay, my policy is this: I will promo for promo. So promo me and I’ll promo you until I remember to remove all the promos from my Tumblr, usually that takes at least a few days. I don’t do rates mainly because my tastes are not everyone’s tastes. I typically follow everyone who follows me, and I’ll spend some time deciding if I want to keep following you. It normally takes about two weeks to make up my mind. I typically vote for people when I see it on my dashboard. If I like what I see and think those who read this mess will like it, or if it fits with my site here, I’ll reblog you.
What’s with the name?
It’s a quote: “The sun does not shine for a few trees and flowers, but for the wide world’s joy.”
What fandoms are you into?
Pokemon, a lot of different anime (Bleach primarily, but there’s Neon Genesis, Ghost in the Shell and many others), Doctor Who, Torchwood (not as much), Firefly, West Wing, Star Wars, Star Trek and many others.
What makes you mad?
Bullying, hypocrisy, lies and dishonorable behavior not otherwise specified.
What makes you happy?
Kittens, magic, good CGI, PIXAR movies, Disney movies (mostly), dragons and fruit.
So your profile lists a couple names. What’s your name?
My legal name is Joy Phillip. My magickal/Pagan/Witch name is Erin. I used to be known by other names, and I’m mostly known on the Internet as Daven, before I rededicated myself.
How old are you?
I was born January 12, 1968. Do the math.
Who are you?
I think you need to go read the description (just click on the big + sign up above) of my blog here. It gives the encapsulated version of my blog and who I am. Failing that, go look under the GPOY tag and see not only pictures, but descriptions and more expounding on me.
So, you are a dude becoming a girl?
No, I’m a girl who was born in the body of the wrong sex. I’m fixing that now.
But you have a kid and are married to a woman.
Correct. It was necessary for me to start life as a male so my daughter could be born. In the process I met a wonderful woman and we fell in love. She and I have been married since 1991.
Are they okay with this sex change?
My wife is not only “okay” with it, she’s the one who has encouraged me to be myself. My daughter loves me and has adjusted. We are all okay with what is happening.
But you still have a penis?
>sigh< Yes, I do. I plan on getting that corrected when possible. Right now I don’t have the money, nor does the insurance pay for it. But, sometime I plan on not having it anymore. Not sure if I’m going to have the full thing done, but we will see.
So you’re a creepy old man who is stalking teen blogs?
No, I’m a creepy old WOMAN who is stalking teen blogs. Get the sex right.
Why are you following so many teen girl’s blogs?
Because I enjoy looking at the pictures. I like seeing fashions and what is current. I like ideas for makeup, I enjoy looking at beauty. Plus I’m attracted to girls.
So you’re a lesbian?
Yes, yes I am.
What do you like?
Here on this blog I post things about dresses, tops, skirts, makeup, shoes (mostly heels), boots. I also post about Transgender and LGBTIQ issues. I think about politics and those items in politics that affect me or the LGBTIQ issues. (for those not up on the terminology, that stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans*, Instesexed and genderQueer things)
Pagan? What’s that?
It’s a religion, which is not Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Muslim or Buddhist. That’s the technical definition. It basically means I worship nature and that I’m, above all, a humanist. Do some Google searches and read.
